…Life is always difficult and challenging…
Live a life during which you can look into people’s eyes directly and openly without fears and shame, when at the end of each day you can look into your eyes in the mirror with respect, when your heart and mind are satisfied with your true and kind actions…
After all struggles try to stay genuine and honest…

…About her…

She was resisting to let tears out which were kept for years…

She was often highly serious and silent, sometimes in a gloomy mood…

People sometimes were thinking that she was arrogant or over-confident…

She just decided not to allow anyone to hurt her anymore…

Too much pain was made to her by people who had no moral right to do it…

She had that protective measure to keep a distance not to allow people to hurt her… At least not that moment…

…About him…

He was fighting his own battles earned during years…

He was always pretending to demonstrate happiness and success…

People mainly were thinking that he is self-centered and egoistic…

He decided not to show his weaknesses to anyone…

He was thinking that he didn’t have a right to have any weakness…

He had that protective measure to survive in troublesome life he was gifted… At least at that moment…

…About them…

…And one day they met…

Time was passing and passing with no obvious results for either the people around and for themselves…

Efforts were hidden under “seriousness” and “happiness”…

Questions were killed by “gloomy mood” and “success”…

It seemed that everything was meaningless and nothing had a purpose…

But one day she allowed tears to take a reign…

But one day he decided to face his weaknesses…

What is success? I am sure there is a huge list of psychological and philosophical theories about it… But I have mine, true one for me…

Success is a difficult achievement and when a person tries to get it without hard work, good driver forces and devotion the result mostly probably will be a deep disappointment.

Long-term success is definitely based on right priorities, good intentions and thoughts: important people, love, care, devotion, truthfulness, honesty and integrity.

Short-term success can be gained for money, power, glory and fame but these never can be drivers for long-term success.

For me my success is defined by a sincere look into my eyes in the mirror…

If I can look into my eyes openly and honestly and I am satisfied with my intentions, behaviour and achievements then I consider myself successful….

I am doing this hard work… I am sincere with myself…

I advise you to do the same…

Just have a look in the mirror and ask you the main questions: if your intentions are good for yourself and for the world, if your behaviour is good to yourself and others (especially to people whom you love and who love you), if you are content with your actions, if you are a positive change agent in the world…

And then don’t save yourself with wrong answers… Answer right, truly and sincerely…

…And then again have a look into your own eyes and there will be the right answer if you are successful or not…

I think all the people with whom I socialize more or less know that the staff of our division is very enthusiastic, interesting and goal-oriented. If you don’t know them believe me you have lost some interesting and challenging spot in life. My life is full of happiness and motivation as I work with them.

There is a working blackboard in our room which we use during our discussions.

Nana left a motivational quote on it silently some days ago… “Happiness is a decision…” Believe me that entering room every morning and reading this quote made me to think that nothing should harm my decision to be happy… I liked this feeling as I was fine with that…

Make that decision a priority in your life and don’t let anyone or anything harm it…

Today we decided to leave such inspirational quote every day to stay positive and self-confident…

Tamara left the second one… “Be the best version of you…”

I became confused as my best version is Ligia who is sincere, cares and thinks of others, feels others emotions and thoughts thoroughly, devotes with all the spirit and becomes unprotected as much as it is possible…  But it’s my best version with its benefits and damages and you don’t need to think of it too much…

I want you to think of the best version of you…

When star is falling they say to make a wish…

I suggest not to wait until stars will fall down but make a wish now before sleeping. Think of your best wish which you have had from your childhood till now.

And I believe that at that moment you will be the best version of you as all of us are kind, satisfied and understanding when we think about our wishes and goals…

…Good night…

Everything was so usual…

It was the “X-th” day of “Y” month, ZZZZ…

It was a usual day in the calendar…

It seemed that everything was smooth and normal…

And God was smiling…

Morning preparations…

Low and calm music, smooth aura, nothing disturbing…

Bath and coffee…just routine nothing more…

Creams, perfumes, cosmetics…as usual…

New jeans, new t-shirt, new socks and new sneakers…very usual…

Jacket, small bag on shoulder, street…

People rushing to work…as usual…

Calm and pleasant weather…

Expected SMS and happy smile…

Calm walk and nice thoughts…

Takeaway coffee and a cookie gifted by cafe worker who will never be met…

Thankful smile and gratitude to God…

Favorite Park, nice pool, people sitting around the pool on green chairs…

Small boy playing with yellow and orange cars on the sand…

Blue sky, green trees and grass, colorful flowers, breathing buildings…

And Sun…

And Sun burning on the horizon, spreading its color and energy to everywhere and everyone…

The only free chair (message from God) right on the front of burning sun…

Desire to stop the moment and enjoy it till the end of the life…

Heavy breathing because of strong emotions…

Soul unable to bear those emotions…

Mind thankful for generosity to become happy…

World smelling happiness…

Nothing was usual…

That was the day…

That was the day of full happiness…

God was smiling…

Life is what it is…

It gives us whatever we escaped from, whatever we left unsolved and problematic in the past. We should overcome it anyway either we want it or not. Sometimes we try, sometimes we fail, sometimes we are disappointed, sometimes it seems impossible, sometimes we want to leave everything and run away, sometimes we lose our way and motivation.

But if you are a struggling person either you will find the way or you will build a new way.

Life is what it is…

My life gives me my challenges, your life sends your challenges to you. Both are difficult and sometimes killing for our personalities. The thing is that we shouldn’t be killed and we have to try our best to overcome those issues as soon as possible. It’s the way to feel the whole deepness and meaning of the life.

And, every person decides on his/her own how deep he/she wants to feel the life and how deep to live it. Every person lives the life his/her riskiness allows.

And no one has reached to the deepest point so each of us has that opportunity to go till that limitless end…

Life is what it is… And we don’t choose many things in it…

My life is kind of philosophical. I had everything I needed but I had lack of so important things that I couldn’t realize at that moment. I thought this lack can be filled by things I had but oops… It took time to realize it…

Now I fill this lack by small molecules earning them day by day. It’s quite difficult and sometimes almost impossible, but I am where I am with my current strength, abilities, openness, darkness, light and dark…

I can be so different, I can be so unexplained, but definitely I am the one who doesn’t leave anything unsolved at least for me. So any challenge or difficulty will be dealt till the end without fear or hesitation…

And I state from the deep heart and soul that no one or nothing can make me to surrender!!!

As they say “you may see me struggle but you never see me quit!”…

P.S. Believe me it’s the game worth to stay in. You can try to go till the end for your life or you can join my game but of course only by my agreement and by your commitment 😉

Always, always and always surround yourself with the people who believe in you more than even you!!!
Always, always and always care for the people who are important and reliable for the lifetime!!!
Always, always and always love the people who really love you!!!
Always, always and always appreciate the people who can recover and heal you from the very bottom!!!
These people are few but fortunately they exist!!!

Love is…

When you do something to make him/her to smile…

When you don’t do anything to harm his/her mood…

When you do your best to understand what he/she thinks…

When you feel what he/she feels…

When you know what he/she didn’t say…

When you do what he/she wants but doesn’t say…

When you start to cook when during all your life you hated cooking…

When you don’t want to push him/her to anything…

When you think that his/her eyes are exceptional…

When you see the deepness of his/her soul…

When you know his/her favorite coffee and when he/she wants it…

When you are able to let him/her to go if he/she wants it…

When you do want to see him/her happy…

The other things such as jealousy, ownership and fighting are just the explanation of the absence of Love…

I want to fly to the times you haven’t been born yet!
I want to move to the places you haven’t ever been!
I want to live with the people who have never known you!
I want to delete all the memories I have in my head right now!
And then and there I want to be a person I AM after meeting you!!!

Sometimes I am getting surprised how human heart and soul can absorb so much stress, unfairness and difficulties… And in the same time person should stay kind, generous and strong…
They say what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger… And what is the definition of a strong person?
Someone who succeeds in work, someone who bears too much in life, someone who faces challenges with confidence, someone who fails and gets up many times, someone who isn’t afraid of anything, some…one who wins always… All these people usually forget about happiness…
I don’t want to be strong and spend so much heart and spirit on it. They can be used much wisely, believe me
I do want to be happy. I want to make people happy. And I want everyone to be happy.
However we don’t define the rules of life and we have to take our role in this world. We are not God and we have to live and being strong is the base of living.
So let’s try to be happy and strong simultaneously.